Monday, December 19, 2011

Never Bored says Love In Your Mom

Never Bored says Love On Your Mother, because Islam teaches that the mother is a very special parties and the highest rank. Therefore we are very familiar with the hadith that explains the necessity of a friend in order prioritizing to do good to his mother. Even the Prophet shollallahu 'alaih wa sallam mentioned the necessity

as much as three times before he finally had a friend also suggested that doing good to his father. So supposing the necessity to respect and do good fitting for a child to his mother three times more than the respect and good behavior towards his father.

أخبرنا بهز بن حكيم حدثني أبي عن جدي قالقلت يا رسول الله من أبر قال أمك قال قلت ثم من قال أمكقال قلت ثم من قال أمك قال قلت ثم من قالثم أباك ثم الأقرب فالأقرب

Bahaz Ibn Hakim, from his father, from his grandfather Radliyallaahu 'anhu said: I asked: Messenger of Allah, to whom I do good?. He said: "Your mother." I ask again: Then who?. He said: "Your mother." I ask again: Then who?. He said: "Your mother." I ask again: Then who?. He said: "Your father, then a closer, then closer." (Narrated by Abu Dawud and Tirmidhi)

We are also very familiar with the hadith that mentions some of the major sins in which one of them is disobedience to parents, the father and mother. Among others mentioned as follows:

عن أنس رضي الله عنه قال سئل النبي صلى الله عليه وسلمعن الكبائر قال الإشراك بالله وعقوق الوالدينوقتل النفس وشهادة الزور

From Anas he said: The Prophet shollallahu 'alaih wa sallam was asked about the major sins, then he said: "to Allah, disobedience to the parents, to kill the soul and false testimony." (Narrated by Bukhari)

Even in another hadith mentioned that both parents are a huge factor affecting whether a person will go to heaven or to hell. That is, either one's behavior to her parents would increase the likelihood end up in the grace of God and His Garden. While disobedience to both parents will increase the likelihood of ending his life in God's wrath and hell Him.

عن أبي أمامة أن رجلا قال يا رسول اللهما حق الوالدين على ولدهما قال هما جنتك ونارك

From Abi Umaamah he said: "There's a man saying:" O Messenger of Allah, whether the rights of both parents for their children? "The Messenger shollallahu 'alaih wa sallam said:" Both (are) surgamu and nerakamu. "(Narrated by Ibn Majah )

This is in line with the following hadeeth: From Abdullah Ibn Amar al-`Radliyallaahu 'anhu that the Prophet sallallaahu' alaihi wa sallam said:" Allah's pleasure depends on the pleasure of the parents and the wrath of God depends on the parent's wrath. " (Narrated by Tirmidhi)

But the interesting thing is the discovery of hadith that are specifically expressed illegitimate disobedience to his mother. While this can not be found in connection with the prohibition applies disobedience to his father. Of course, this does not mean that the true father justified disobedience to the parties. What is clear in the presence of specific restrictions apply disobedience to mothers hand just to show how the teachings of Islam upholds the dignity of the mother.

قال النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم إن الله حرم عليكم عقوق الأمهات

The Prophet said shollallahu 'alaih wa sallam: "God forbid you rebel against your mother." (Narrated by Bukhari)

In another hadith we also find how to call upon to respect the mother even if he is not a believer like the hadeeth narrated by Asma daughter of Abu Bakr Companions-Siddiq following:

عن أسماء بنت أبي بكر رضي الله عنهما قالتقدمت علي أمي وهي مشركة في عهد رسول اللهصلى الله عليه وسلم فاستفتيت رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلمقلت قدمت علي أمي وهي راغبة أفأصل أمي قال نعم صلي أمك

Asma bint Abu Bakr said: "It has come to me my mother and she is a polytheist woman at the time of the Prophet shollallahu 'alaih wa sallam. So I came to the Messenger of shollallahu 'alaih wa sallam asked for his fatwa. I asked him: "It has come to me my mother while she had a purpose. Did I meet my mother's request? "So the Prophet shollallahu 'alaih wa sallam said:" Yes, fill your mother's request. "(Narrated by Bukhari)

Why does the mother in such a precedence? Because they are the parties that since I was pregnant with it already felt the weight of the responsibility of raising her children. They are a companion, lover, caregiver and teacher first and foremost for a child. Mother is the hand of the most bothered by the children since they were little. Once born child demanding its mother's milk. The desire to drink milk often do not view time. Could be a mother in the middle of the night "forced" to give up their rest breaks for breastfeeding her baby.

A mother also bothered when his son urinated and defecated. Mother who usually must mencebok and clean up his son. The more sincere a mother do all the activities were the more melekatlah the child to himself. Behind all the fuss was really terjalinlah heart that the stronger the bond between mother and child. That is why when a person is an adult though, when the loneliness is not uncommon sense of longing for caresses the hand of a loving mother came back.

There is a saying in Arabic proverb reads madrasa al-Umm (mother is a school). True, my brother. A mother is the first school for every child. The mother who first taught many lessons about life to children early. Especially in an age full of slander as now where al-al-fikri ghazwu (the intellectual / cultural war / ideological war) came raided the houses of the Muslims. The raid came from different directions. Can of television, internet, facebook, books, comics, magazines, songs, music, relationships and even the formal school ...! Then the presence of a mother who has extensive knowledge insight into the guard is like the last bastion for their children. Mother who is in charge fortify, filtering and directing children face a variety of cultural invasion of the war earlier.

In our present time period where the ideology of atheism, materialism, secularism, liberalism and pluralism as the dominant color the life of the world community, then the presence of a mother alone to accompany their children sometimes felt inadequate. So that cooperation between the father-and mother-believers mukminah indispensable. In the modern world our children really need instruction that is very sturdy and compact from her parents at the same time to counter attack the enemies of Islam a bad influence is increasingly hegemonic.

However, a father can not be expected to constantly be at home because of the demands of looking ma'isyah (income) for child-wife. Therefore attendance and active participation of a mother at home to accompany her children to be very strategic. Therefore the Prophet shollallahu 'alaih wa sallam equalizes present and active a mother accompanying her children at home with activities of jihad fi sabilillah conducted by men on the battlefield to face the enemies of Allah.

عن أنس, رضي الله عنه, قال: جئن النساء إلى رسول اللهصلى الله عليه وسلم فقلن: يا رسول الله, ذهب الرجالبالفضل والجهاد في سبيل الله تعالى, فما لنا عمل ندرك بهعمل المجاهدين في سبيل الله? فقال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم: "من قعد - أو كلمة نحوها - منكن في بيتها فإنها تدركعمل المجاهدينفي سبيل الله".

From Anas radi 'anhu he said: The women came to the Prophet shollallahu' alaih wa sallam said: "O Messenger of Allah, the men had gone with virtue, and jihad in Allah's way. Are there any deed for us who can match 'charity of the Mujahideen in Allah's way? "The Prophet shollallahu' alaih wa sallam said:" Whoever among you sit at home then surely he has to match 'charity of the Mujahideen in Allah's way. "(HR . Al-Bazzar)

O mothers, and be patient ikhlas manning your jihad. Educate future generations of would-be mujahideen and FII mujahidat sabilillah ummah hope ....!

and there may be a love letter that I wrote to mother

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